Douglas County residents 80 and older lined up Tuesday for the first mass vaccination clinic for people in their age group outside long-term care settings.
One day soon, Grandma Conchita can finally fire up a big pot of posole for her big family again after a long year of loneliness and fear.
That’s because Maria Concepcion Fernandez Valadez and her husband, David Valadez Esparza, who are in their 90s, have been vaccinated against COVID-19. Younger people in their family also are being vaccinated as their turns come up, following the example and advice of the couple’s granddaughter Maria Gonzalez, a nurse manager at OneWorld Community Health Center in Omaha. That has given the matriarch and patriarch hope that life can return to the way it was before the pandemic.
Once the rest of their family gets vaccinated, the couple can fill up their little house in South Omaha with family for birthdays, holidays or just because it’s Sunday. Grandma Conchita, as the family calls her, is looking forward to dishing up bowls of her beloved pork posole, a traditional Mexican stew of meat and hominy that she cooks the way her mother made it back in Jalisco. She can hold her grandchildren and great-grandchildren on her lap. The couple can sit in their front yard and chat with people passing by. They can go to the mall, relax on a bench and watch people.
“Now that we are vaccinated, we feel more calm and tranquil,” Mrs. Valadez said. “Thanks to OneWorld and God, we are going to be around for a long time and we are going to get to know more grandkids.”
Vaccines are starting to be distributed more widely in Nebraska communities, raising hopes that people will be safe from COVID and that families and friends can get together again without worrying about making each other sick.
In Douglas County, more than 80% of people 65 and older had received at least one dose of vaccine by last week; 58% of elders had been fully vaccinated. In all, more than 145,000 Douglas County residents had received at least one dose by last week. And nearly 90,000 people — 21% of Douglas County residents 16 years and older — had been fully vaccinated by last week.
But many people remain reluctant to get vaccinated, and there are large disparities among racial and ethnic groups. In Douglas County, just 5.3% of the people who have been fully vaccinated are Hispanic, while 5.3% are Black and nearly 79% are White and not Hispanic. That’s despite the fact that 13% of Douglas County residents are Hispanic, and more than 11% are Black.
Experts are attributing those disparities in part to different levels of access, including such barriers as language and technology gaps. Polls also had shown that people of color were more reluctant to get the vaccines, although more recent data has indicated that the gaps in hesitancy are getting narrower. Outreach by public health officials and community organizations to counter rumors and to make it easier for people to be vaccinated can make a difference. That’s especially true when people hear from those they trust that it is necessary and safe to be vaccinated.
David and Concepcion Valadez and their daughter Sara Inda joined granddaughter Maria Gonzalez for an interview recently to talk about their experiences with COVID and the vaccine.
The couple grew up in Mexico, where they were married in 1945 in Guadalajara. They had 10 children, four of whom they have outlived. David Valadez is 94. He is a retired meatpacking plant worker who also worked at an Olive Garden restaurant and a car dealership, among other jobs. Grandma Conchita is 92. She worked as a homemaker. They have lived in Omaha since 1992.
Sara Inda, 67, is retired after working 12 years for ConAgra in meatpacking and 13 years for FBG Service Corp., mainly cleaning First National Bank offices. She lives with her parents and helps them out.
The couple have 50 grandchildren, 28 great-grandchildren and six great-great grandchildren. Their relatives who live in Omaha frequently visit Grandma Conchita’s house.
“We used to go about every week,” Maria Gonzalez said. “There’s always people going there. ... When Abuelita Conchita makes posole, she makes a huge pot so everybody, whoever shows up at the house, can enjoy the posole.”
The couple revel in having family at their home.
“She’s the coffee lady; whenever you stop by, she asks, you want coffee? ... Instead of saying I love you or something, she likes to slap us on the butt,” Gonzalez said. That’s often followed by a hug.
And for the little ones?
“She places herself on a chair, and then we just put the babies on her arm,” Gonzalez said.
That all came to a halt in February of 2020, when it became obvious the pandemic would reach Omaha. Gonzalez got a call from her grandparents on her toddler twins’ birthday. They had heard about the virus on the television news.
“They were very scared,” she said.
She explained to them how they had to social distance to avoid infection. As the pandemic wore on, their loneliness grew. Four of their friends and a relative died from the disease.
“It was shocking that people couldn’t come visit but they knew they had to abide for a certain period of time,” Sara Inda said.
The couple started hearing late last year, on the Spanish-language radio news and in phone calls with Maria, that a vaccine was being developed, David Valadez said.
“We were hoping it was coming here,” he said. “We were hoping that with that, we would have protection from the virus.”
But they also worried. They heard rumors that a lot of people were dying from the vaccine, that it would implant a microchip in your arm and other false claims circulating on social media and by word of mouth.
They called their granddaughter the nurse.
“Actually, my dad was one of the persons who believed that the COVID vaccine had a lot of side effects, such as death, or like changing your DNA,” Gonzalez said. “So he was sharing this information with them. And he was also saying that we shouldn’t be taking the vaccine.”
She shared the information she had about how the vaccine was developed and results of clinical trials. She said she trusted the hard work of the scientists who developed the vaccines and of health care institutions in Omaha. Perhaps most importantly, she told them she was willing to get the vaccine as soon as it was available.
“So after I got it, they were actually believing me even more, and they wanted the vaccine,” Gonzalez said.
As a front-line health care worker, she was in one of the first groups to receive the Pfizer vaccine in Nebraska. Her grandparents signed up as soon as they were able. They received their first dose in mid-January and their second dose in early February.
Gonzalez, whose husband also has been vaccinated, had a chat with her father, too.
“I told him wherever he is hearing that (the rumors), it is not a good source,” she said. “He needs to investigate it from ... the CDC or websites that are actually accurate and trusted.”
Her dad did the research, and got the shots.
“He got it back in January,” Gonzalez said. “And now he’s like, I never had any doubts about it. He didn’t have any side effects at all.”
David and Concepcion Valadez didn’t have any side effects. They are still social distancing and wearing masks on the rare times they go out. They haven’t gone back to the mall to watch people, but they sat out in their front yard on a sunny day in March.
They aren’t having people over yet, but they are thinking of those happy days being here again with great anticipation.
Asked if they would recommend vaccination to other people, David Valadez said, “Everybody, everybody.”
And will Grandma Conchita make posole?
“Oh, yes, “ she said. “A huge pot.”
Nebraskans lost to COVID-19
Nebraskans lost to COVID-19
Al Martinez

“He has built generations of kids, and if we do our job right, we pass that on, his legacy.”
Berniece Marie Scott

"She fought for her family and friends with love and grit," said Berniece's daughter, Brenda Christoffersen. "She fought hard for all of us until the end."
Bessie Feighner

"The world was a better place with Grandma Bessie in it," said Brandy Feighner. "She set the bar high when it came to genuine kindness and compassion."
Cecilia Dunnigan

"If people needed anything, even if they just needed a good idea, she was the one they relied on," her daughter said.
Charles Maguire

"That just meant if we went sledding at the park, he was right in the middle of everything," she said. "If we had a red wagon, he would push us so hard we'd fall over. Yes, we got a lot of skinned knees, but he'd kiss it and make it feel better."
Craig Gilbert

Through 27 years of marriage, Craig Gilbert didn't go a day without telling his wife Bonnie Gilbert that he loved her.
Daniel Hegarty

Hegarty married his high school sweetheart, Chris Grasso, and the two shared many interests and traveled extensively during their nearly 52 years of marriage.
Daphne Newton

"Before Covid, every Sunday that she was off, dinner was at Daphne's house," Traci said. "Daphne loved to dance and sing. She would also take the entire family to the Amazing Pizza Machine for Christmas."
Darrell Dibben

“That was Dad,” Dave Dibben said. “He cared so much more about others. That’s what made him an outstanding parent and an outstanding teacher.”
Darrin Cook

After his death, Michelle Cook found one last text on his phone that he hadn't sent: "Tell the kids I love them, and I love you, too."
Denver Schmadeke

Denver Schmadeke served as an Omaha firefighter for more than 30 years. He and his wife would have celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in January. He died Dec. 26.
Don Kane

Kane devoted his career to public education in Missouri Valley, most notably as a middle school principal. He officiated thousands of football and basketball games, earning induction into the Iowa Officials Hall of Fame in 2002.
Donald and Carol Wendland

Donald and Carol Wendland enjoyed a life that was rooted in a sense of place, family and community.
Donald and Marie Stoltenberg

The last thing Donald Stoltenberg said to his wife of 69 years before she died of COVID-19 on Nov. 21 was that he’d be with her soon. He died four days later.
Donald Obermire

Obermire was a big-hearted man who was always willing to lend a helping hand to any person or animal.
Dorothy Schnieders

Dorothy Schnieders was a warm, funny, loving woman who didn't take things for granted.
Elinor Borders

"She was very caring, she always had time for us," Deb Miller said. "She was always willing to pass along information on her hobbies and took an interest in ours."
Ernie Johnson

"He was my brother, not just a statistic," Lori Meyer said. "He was loved by his multitude of friends, too."
Frank Kumor

Bellevue Public Schools Superintendent Jeff Rippe said Kumor served on the school board for “all the right reasons.” “He truly cared and did everything he could, financially and emotionally, to support our students and staff,” Rippe said.
Frank Naranjo

“Reach out to your neighbor. Love one another. Take care of each other during this scary time.”
Gary Elwood

Barb Elwood of Bennet, Nebraska, loved her husband Gary Elwood's smile. She loved the look in his eyes when he was around his grandchildren. She loved the nights they would spend around a fire pit drinking and singing at the top of their lungs.
Greg Peterson

Peterson worked in IT for most of his life, and then as a custodian at Abbott Elementary. He enjoyed riding motorcycles, playing cribbage, cooking and fixing things at his home and the Post.
Helen Jones Woods

“My mother was always an activist,” Hughes said. “She saw herself as an underdog, trying to climb out of her environment and circumstance. And she believed that along the way, you take someone with you.”
Jack Fynbu

In the procession to Fynbu’s gravesite at Lincoln Memorial Park, he rode in the rumble seat in his ‘32 Deuce — one last ride in his dream car.
Jesus Ortega

Otega was never one to say "I love you," "you did well" or anything like that. He would show it, his stepson Wilfredo Bonilla noted, instead of saying it.
Jim McGrath

“He loved working with young people,” his wife Beth McGrath said. “He touched so many kids and had such an impact on them. He has a favorite T-shirt that says, ‘I yell because I care.’”
Joel A. Watts

“He really enjoyed life, even the smallest thing could be an adventure,” Lois Watts said.
Karen Darling

“There were flowers in the house and flowers outside,” he said. “Lots of pots and flowers all over the place. She liked the perennials — not the annuals.”
Ken Dahlke

The Nebraska State Patrol remembers Lt. Ken Dahlke as “a great man and a great role model for the many troopers he worked with who carry on the legacy of dedication to public service.”
Kevin Hopper

Hopper was honored in December of last year and wrote a report about his career in which he described changes he had seen in information technology. “What a wild ride it has been!” he wrote.
Laura Saf

She was a rules official for 16 U.S. Women’s Opens, 11 U.S. Women’s Amateurs, two men’s U.S. Opens and the 2013 U.S. Senior Open in Omaha, a British Women’s Open and a men’s U.S. Amateur.
Larry Saab

"He just liked to play, that's all he did, he liked to play with his grandkids, play in the snow, just play," daughter Mary Mueller said.
Leland Lamberty

“Dr. Lamberty was loved and respected by all who worked with him,” said Mel McNea, Great Plains Health chief executive officer. “His presence on our medical staff and in the community will be missed. He was a visionary, a mentor and a friend to many. He truly loved practicing medicine and serving his patients, and it showed.”
Louis “LJ” Dickson

"He was everyone’s best friend, especially mine," Tamela King said of her son Louis "LJ" Dickson of Bellevue.
Lydia and Carlos Tibbs

“The Tibbses are beautiful people,” said Alexander, who was married to Carlos Tibbs for five of the 10 years they were together. “They covered you with their love.”
Mary Lou O'Hare

Life had a bit more sparkle in Palmer, Nebraska, because of O'Hare.
Merlene Hughes

Merlene Hughes’ friends sometimes jokingly called her “The Bookie” because of her penchant to want to place a bet on just about anything.
Mike Acquazzino

“He cared so much about his family,” Kristen said. “He has a very large family of brothers and sisters and cousins who he was very close to.”
Ming Wang

“He should be here,” she said. “I thought he would dance with my daughters at their weddings some day. I thought we'd get to have him until he was a feisty, gray-haired 95-year old.”
Nancy Cardisco-Preister

Nancy Cardisco-Preister took some tough blows in life, but found a way to move forward.
Paul Filsinger

“We were waiting for the perfect time and the perfect place to get married, but we weren’t real worried about setting a date. We thought we had forever,” Moeller said.
Paul Ing

"He had just become a grandfather, and he should have had many more years with us and his newborn granddaughter but those years were cut short," Ryan said.
Pedro Garcia III

“When our grandpa died, he was the one who was cheering everyone up, telling everyone stories,” Pierro said. “He made everyone smile and laugh.”
Phyllis Wachholtz

"She didn't have any issues in the whole world until COVID hit her," Stoj said. "I just plain miss her."
Ralph Marasco

“I can find comfort in the countless stories of how Dad’s life and work decisions were made from his heart first. It’s that heart that brought him closer to God.”
Randy Secrest

Randy Secrest loved the cowboy life. He loved working with cattle, riding horses, being outdoors and telling stories.
Robert M. Fausset

It was his sense of humor and “big goofy smile” that Anita Kunken loved most about Robert “Bob” Fausset.
Robert Puhalla Sr.

Puhalla, a U.S. Army veteran who was 73, was at the church seven days a week. He often delivered the homily at daily Mass, which begins at 7 a.m.
Roger Ryman

“He was truly trying to make up for the lost time,” she said. “I think of my upcoming college graduation. I'll be the first grandchild to graduate from college, and he won't be there.”
Samiera Abou-Nasr

"Her life was dedicated to her family and loved ones. She would always say to me, 'You give me life,' and I finally understand what she meant by that. She lived for us. For her large, growing family, and she continues to live on in each one of us."
Steve Maurer

“We called him papa,” said granddaughter Emily Wehnes. “He was always interested in anything we were doing."
Ted Bray

"Anytime anybody needed help, he would say, 'Sure, we can do that,'" Ted Bray's daughter, Janelle Francis said.
Tom Vint

“You know how there’s always a glue in the family?” she said. “He’s our glue. So now we have to just try extra hard to be sticky.”
Toni Trapp

Brianna Trapp-Hart considers her mom, Toni Trapp, her best friend. The two talked every day until December, when Toni was diagnosed with COVID-19 and placed on a ventilator.
Vincent Kershaw

“He’d had 30 jobs from age 11 to the time he became a physician,” Sean said. “I think the whole family shares these really amazing memories of camping with him and having adventures with him.”
Wayne Stanley

Over the years as Wayne drove his delivery route for an agriculture company, regular customers learned that a delivery from Wayne frequently came with a half-hour conversation.
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